You have the feeling that much of your life has been spent in service of others. While this may be true, it's not unusual nor is it necessarily a bad thing. However, it is true that it is time to let go and think more about your own needs. This will require letting others know of the change in your attitude. Discuss plans with your husband and map out a program for the next decade. At first he may think you're nuts, but if you show him that you're serious, he'll cooperate. You will have to learn how to say no to demands on your time and resources. This year is a good time to make these changes because there are few 'wrinkles' in other facets of your life. Health is good, relationships are strong, and finances are in order. No major surprises occur to cause you concern.
